Give her a voice!


Women are the fuel of any economy. I read somewhere that a country that promotes women remains a prosperous country with a flourishing economy. In my country, gender equality is still picking up among individuals, in our homes, organizations and government parastatals. While I can’t wait for this to take its full form in my country and see individuals, organizations support and promote the position and stand of every women home and abroad, Let us all learn from these few quotes and why giving them an equal chance will bring the change we desire in our homes, organizations and in governance.

A woman is human.

She is not better, wiser, stronger, more intelligent, more creative, or more responsible than a man.

Likewise, she is never less.

Equality is a given.

A woman is human – Vera Nazarian

When God created man and woman, he was thinking, ‘Who shall I give the power to, to give birth to the next human being?’ And God chose woman. And this is the big evidence that women are powerful – Malala Yousafzai

Human rights are women’s rights, and women’s rights are human rights – Hillary Clinton

Men, their rights, and nothing more; women, their rights, and nothing less – Susan B. Anthony

I do not wish women to have power over men; but over themselves – Mary Shelley

While most people won’t support the quotes, the question is what are we worried about? Why are you “scared” if I am to sound direct? This is not about giving women more power but for women to have equal voice in our world.

Few days ago, my wife to be (Wink) was mad at me for the fact that I got angry at something she feels I shouldn’t hahaha..Very funny but what I learnt from her that day was the fact that as men choose to share what we feel the women should know, likewise for her and I have no right to be mad.

Well, at first I didn’t see it that way, I took it for lack of patience and ego on her side but come to think of it, she only reminds me that women are smart, confident, family oriented and knows her right from wrong. So if you don’t share with her from A-Z, don’t expect the same from her and whenever she feels like sharing, no point getting angry.

I think I have said too much. Women are worth giving the chance for gender equality. They earn it, they deserve it and we should all support the introduction of such. Women, aspire to any height without looking back. Support equality today the same way you will stand for your daughter, wife and mother. I celebrate you women and salute you all. Lend your voice to gender equality today!

Inspired by you “Candie” – I will never be a stopping stone but a stepping stone to get you to wherever you want to get to in life. I respect you.

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Happy St. Valentines Day

Love is when other person’s happiness is more important than your own – H Jackson Brown, Jr.

St Valentines Day, 14 February, has become a worldwide event where individuals show love to loved ones, friends, family, admirer, orphans, disabled people e.t.c by exchanging gifts but several years ago, gifts are shared as usual but shared anonymously. Why? I wish I know (lol). It’s a beautiful thing to celebrate people not minding who they are, what they look like or where they are. Let’s show love and value somebody today. Let’s put the other person first and celebrate them not expecting anything in return.

While some people will say they show love everyday and there is no exception or specialty to Feb 14, I have few questions I would like us to please answer then. Please find the questions below?

  1. What is your understanding of St. Valentines? To some people it’s just a name..How about you?
  2. What are your suggestions of a memorable Valentine?
  3. What is the best thing to do on Feb.14?
  4. How do you intend to spend your valentine?

Thanks for your time today and for always reading my blog. Happy St Valentines Day. If you are seeking love, may you find love and if you have found love, always endeavour to show love to your loved one at all times.

For me, I will be celebrating with you all by reading your valuable comments. Show love!

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Compliments Of The Season!

It’s few hours to Christmas and few days to New Year. I feel happy to be connecting with my readers, colleagues, friends all over the world at this hour to share my appreciation for  the hours spent reading, commenting, sharing and practicing some of the things I wrote about. Thank you and I hope and look forward to a better, fun-filled and a prosperous New Year.

Once again, We at Temi’s Blog wishes you a Happy Christmas.

Thank you!









Ese pupo!




Don’t forget to read and share some of my posts with friends and family. That is another perfect way to give a gift this season as Information is not cheap either.

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